How to help a loved one?

Your parent, your brother, your sister, your friend ... is in the grip of a perverse narcissistic.


In this case, many of us would attempt more to help him, as the tests have failed.
However, a victim of PN does not account for the handling it undergoes, and therefore she feels fully understood and loved by his executioner.
Instead, she sees the rest of his entourage as "harmful" for her. However, it is not to throw the stone, it is the absolute victim.
And that's entourage then discouraged, let the victim get out of his situation by itself.


ERROR! It is "fundamental" and I insist on this, to stay close to the victim.


The victim fully need to (unwittingly) for your support even if it does not appear.
Before she even knows she is being manipulated, it is necessary that every act, word, or else ... evil manipulator, to demonstrate the defect action of PN
As and when the victim opens his eyes. This can take weeks, months or even years ...
It all depends on the length to which it was used by the PN


Under no circumstances should you blame that PN directly to the victim, is his "idol".
The PN knows so well to talk, listen, mimic the suffering of others, he is so compassionate, understanding, it will take time.
But do not despair, one day the victim will be of great recognition.
It will be you and you alone it has learned to live and to think for itself.
It will feel revived, breathe and you can be worthy of having your loved one released from the clutches of a PN


So to summarize:
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- Stay in contact with the victim
- - Show her the evil acts of PN
- - Never criticize directly the PN to the victim
- - Keep hope.